BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN IS A WOMAN.
I look at the lonely hearts column
and other dating sites today and I am confused. Why is it that ladies can never
learn to understand the simple art of winning and making their own men into
their dream husbands? Every lady is like, “I want a tall, dark and handsome man,
financially stable, god-fearing, H.I.V negative, understanding, loving and
caring, ready to commit to a relationship leading to marriage. A person ready
to love me and my four kids.” Honestly?
This is a description of a successful
man alongside a miserable, desperate, wretched woman. There is no denying the
fact, “behind every successful man there is a woman.” In fact, not just a woman
but a strong dedicated, indomitable woman, who has withstood and endured a lot.
A woman who probably persevered days of hunger, violent intense
misunderstandings, sometimes tears of abuse and worse disgusting moments.
Come to think of it. Why would you get a successful man on a
silver platter just like that? Yet behind every successful man there is a
woman. In this saying, the visible success is credited to the man, perhaps
because the man is traditionally the head of the family or relationship. The
real source of success though is the woman behind the man. He is like the personal
manager of the man. It is the woman behind the man who steered the man to the
top behind the scene.
The story of Barrack Hussein Obama,
former American president is the best testimony about women making their men.
He is a son of a common African student, flown to the USA under the famous Tom
Mboya Africa educational Airlifts. Obama is a story of a man who
rose from grass to grace, becoming the first black American president. In his
autobiography Obama narrates how he met a successful hardworking woman who
turned his life around, steering him to the post of Illinois Senator and latter
becoming one of the best presidents the United States ever had.
Michelle Lavaughn Robinson from down
town Chicago was twenty seven fresh from Harvard Law School and working with
Sidley Austin corporate law firm where she was assigned a role to mentor summer
law associate, Barack Obama. A man who was bred in Hawaii by his white grandmother
from Kansaas was just a random guy changing careers from finance to law and was
a first year law student. It is during this mentorship that Michelle molded
Barack into an exquisite guy she would need in her dreams.
So my dear sister if you want a
successful man who is successful in literally everything. A perfect Mister
right, then my challenge is for you to travel upcountry in the village, look
for a poor man potential of success and help him climb the ladder of success.
Otherwise to say you want a man who has huge money, huge power, huge education,
huge everything, you must literally get your hands wet in the mud and mold him
to your own desirable art.
If you don’t struggle and make your
own man there is no way you can get a readymade man with everything in his
closet. To make the matter worse, you are neither coming with your virginity
nor are you ready to toe the line he draws. My sister eat humble pie get a miserable
wretch of a man, bring him over to the garage and refurbish him to the
successful man you desire.
If women do not change their
parochial view of a committed successful man, they will continue being single
and hoping from relationship to relationship. They’ll be leaving their husbands
only to scavenge other women’s husbands.
Women today claim they cannot be held in a relationship in which they
are not happy. In fact in most cases it is not just happiness but the women are
not ready to be wives (subject to their husbands). Most single families are not
the result of runaway fathers but are the r of independent women wielding
independence and anxious to experience freedom from being wives.
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